A little about me

34 years old, 5’10 without shoes, size 12 clothes shoe size 6-7.
Professional dominatrix for over 13 years (although my interests span a longer time frame)

History and BDSM views
Since a young age I have had an interest in domination, and experimented with bondage as a teenager. I always joke that I was born a deviant lol!!! As my interests expanded, I began ‘playing’ in a semi-professional level whilst at university. After graduating, and succeeding in getting a ‘proper’ job in the field that I had trained in, I realised that the area which I excelled in and most enjoyed was BDSM. For me my art is a vocation, as opposed to a ‘job’. I never feel like I’m ‘working’ and I look forward to each of my sessions as everyone is different. My day is never predictable or boring and the people I meet make my life fulfilled. Many I consider personal friends.

My session preferences
All of the services offered are the ones I enjoy so should we play, you need not worry that I am not having fun. For me a session is both serious and rewarding. I enjoy pushing people and watching the response. ‘Playing’ is great stress relief and can leave you elated for days. The services I do not offer are those I do not enjoy and therefore will not cater for. Generally my specialties include, heavy bondage, medical play, electro-stim, anal training, pain without marks, accurate CP, Rubber bondage boot worship and scenarios. If you require a service that is not listed in this site then please contact me via e-mail and I may be able to help.

Building a rapport
The majority of my appointments are with regular clients. This is not to say that I will not take on new subs, but I prefer new slaves to have a clear idea of what they like. This can be presented in the form of a list by phone, or letter of introduction via e-mail prior to the session. I always have a chat before the session starts to establish limitations. I do not consider this ‘topping from the bottom’ as I always put my own spin on things. The more information I have, the better your session will go. It’s as simple as that. I pride myself on keeping sessions as fresh as possible trying to vary each session.

During the session

I usually have an informal chat at the beginning of the session to iron out any problems and recap on previous emails. This is the time to mention anything you may have forgotten to put down, any health problem you may have or areas of play that have come to mind en-route to the dungeon. My style of play is not that of  'Get on the floor you worm' unless you specifically request this unflinching dominant bitch to host your session. I can of course easily do this roleplay, but on every other occasion you will find me with a smile and a wicked glint in my eye. I enjoy what I do and I believe that comes through. To me the most enjoyable sessions are those where both people are interacting well. This doesn't mean however that I expect you to verbally communicate the entire session.  Basically I'm saying, "whatever comes naturally to you". If you are not a talker but much quieter in a session then that is also fine. But, when I feel that what I'm doing is well received and flowing then this alone gives me a buzz. I enjoy the vibing/connecting with my subbie. To me, sessioning is a two way experience and this is where the enjoyment is for me. I may of course choose to tweak my subbies requests... I will of course keep you on your toes and keep the session fresh for those who regularly return to my stable.

How long should I book for Mistress?

That is a difficult question to answer as it really depends on what type of a session you are looking for. If you are seeking a basic CP scenario, boot worship or a strap-on style session then an hour is fine. However due to the large selection of implements/equipment the most common session length is 2 hours. I would suggest that in reality a 2 hour session is ideal when you factor in more complex elements such as multi-layered rubber, heavy bondage or medical. Ultimately the decision is yours, I will accept bookings up to 4 hours in length. All my sessions are 1 to 1 and continuous, you will not be left on your own for safety reasons.

Feedback
Feedback is an important aspect of a session. This is not taken as a criticism but to get maximum impact from any following sessions.  Ideally outline what worked well, or even not so well. This can be done at the end of the session, or preferably via email soon afterwards or when arranging the next session. This gives me areas to expand and build on. I learn more about my sub when they take the time to express what areas were enjoyable as this often opens new avenues for following sessions.

Reviews

I have other reviews and interviews but you can read most of what's in them on this site, hence I'm not adding more links here.

Wish list

For those of you who wish to bring a gift, I have updated my wish list. These items are by no means obligatory.